Era Wonder Women Nichole: Marrying GAY!! AKA MRS. COVER UP

Era Wonder Women Nichole: Marrying GAY!! AKA MRS. COVER UP: "Would you marry a successful gay man to get the perfect life u always dream of??? Written by: EraNichole aka Wonder Woman The Question of t..."

Marrying GAY!! AKA MRS. COVER UP

Would you marry a successful gay man to get the perfect life u always dream of???

Written by: EraNichole aka Wonder Woman

The Question of the day is would you marry a successful gay man in order to have life you always wanted??  In this day and age it seems that marriage is not the complete fairy tale that many women expect. They are simply surprised after the ceremony.  Once they begin to live the married life in reality many find themselves very unhappy, overwhelmed and some could even reach a form of depression.  Many have to deal with financial problems that were not sorted before the marriage, even sometimes infidelity in the early stages. Not including the drama that could result in a child custody battle if there was ever to be a divorce.

 This leads me to believe what some woman would do to guarantee a perfect life. If a man had all the qualities you wanted let's say he is like a best friend. He could be a magnificent cleaner the house stays spotless, he might even be a great cook. Going shopping would be an amazing adventure on a regular if you know what I mean.  He would be financially stable and very successful in his career. The only thing is that he is gay, could you be that women who would be willing to sacrifice real intimacy in order to be able to live the ideal life. Could you be the women who would be there to protect, the image knowing what the truth is behind closed doors. Sounds like a confidentiality agreement to me. Marrying for love in this day and age seems like a thing of the past. Why not choose to do what best benefit you in the long run, instead of focusing so much on passion. Look around at all the celebrity reality television shows that are based around finding a mate. These people are not exploiting themselves for no reason. Sounds like money is the motive to me, no one can truly find love in a competition, everyday someone is trying to be the person that reaches the top spot with a complete stranger make no sense.

Certainly there could be some downfalls in a relationship of this nature, but what relationship doesn’t have problems.  One problem you would not have is trying to pay light bill. The chances of finding a real and true love are slim to none there are no real guarantees in life. This beats being married 30 years with kids and you find out your husband is gay through some airport scandal. The single lady anthem was a stamp on how much this is relevant in our society at this time. Why not live your life to the fullest by turning your ideal life into a reality by marrying gay. Are you able to be Mrs. Cover Up??

HOW BEING DESPERATE CAN BECOME CRIPPLING

HOW BEING DESPERATE CAN BECOME CRIPPLING:   From Wonder Women Herself!!

Being women I have experience times where I realized that I was alone. That could bring some anxiety to some realizing that it is a fact. What can really scare you is when you don't see a change in your circumstances anytime soon. Learning how to be comfortable with your situation while allowing this time to be a growth process instead of feeling desperate. That would be ideal instead of swimming in your own agony.  Many tend to have to feel a void somehow or some way. Whether it's going out on social scenes every night of the week or even using promiscuity as a substitute for being alone. These are all dangerous, especially on how we view our selves. If you are incomplete by yourself how could be a fulfillment for someone else when they finally come into your life.

 Being whole is a part of becoming women. It's not about independence; own house, own car, two jobs but its learning to be happy with yourself by embracing your current situation. A lot of times women do not feel the need not to go out and enjoy life because no one is there. Instead of waiting for a man to call you to go out on a date take yourself on one. Appreciate your own company Why wait?? Some women don't even try to keep their selves up if they’re not dating anyone. You should look red carpet ready everyday not to the extreme but you know what I mean. Look good for you, eat healthy, exercise do the things you always wanted to do. Allow this time you have alone to become empowering and discover things inside of you that you didn't know you even had their, fulfill your passions and desires put you first. When you get into a habit where your jumping from relationship to relationship it can take away from your inner self then add.

 Many would put up with so much trama in their lives just for the sake of having someone. Even if it's a situation where there could be abuse involved or even infidelity. This is also very unhealthy cycle to introduce when there are children involved from previous relationships this could be detrimental for a child’s upbringing. I have seen it over and over again when the child grows animosity towards the parents because of their choices.

 When you can't learn to be alone you never get to your full potential in life there will always be some sort of brokenness in you. Men can sense this type of women and   usually would not allow themselves to become seriously involved. Men are searching for strong women who have her own identity. This would mean they could grow and accomplish things together. Once you grasp hold of your life being single then you will realize what your worth is. It will not be determined by a relationship any longer you will define it. Your mind and standards will change this is all a part of becoming a whole women. When that special person do come along you will be ready emotionally to handle a mature and fulfilling relationship.

Lyrics: It Kills ME

Melanie Fiona

Politics or Equality Why We Can't Wait

"I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: 'We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal.'"
Martin Luther King Jr., I Have a Dream, 1963.




As we remember Dr. Martin Luther King Jr and celebrate his contributions to our society. The fact remains that even though we have come all long way we still have far to go. On January 8th, 2011 tragedy shock the world when a shooting broke out at a Safeway grocery store in Arizona. Where congress woman Gabrielle Gifford's was shot in the head. Six others was shot and killed as well on location. Gabrielle Gifford's was a democrat who was fighting for the everyday person, the voiceless. She supported our president Barack Obama health care bill and many of his efforts to promote economic change for all people. The country has seemed to be in an uproar since our president having been making positive changes for America. Many republicans’ conservatives have been angry about the progress. There have been a lot of back and forth between parties which have lead to angry citizens. Which could have led up to this horrible tragedy in Arizona? When does politics cross the line? Sarah Palin website has gun symbols across democrat’s areas in the United States which seem to be a target for violence. Gabrielle Gifford's offices were vandalized when the health care reform bill was passed. This tragedy reminds me of the difficult times African Americans had to go through in this country fighting just to drink out of the same water fountain. It was the same fight congress woman Gifford's was in it was just in a different format. Her mission is justice for all no matter what ethnic background or status you came from. We all deserve a chance, as I seen news reports all over the television about the shooting. One thing stood out the most a question was ask to congress woman Gifford's father "Did your daughter have any enemies?” He stated “yes the whole tea party". In many ways this party can relate to many parties and organizations that was joined together to fight against equality, justice and freedom for all people years ago. They have shown their face. We have to put on a face of  Dr. King by using a non-violent approach to make sure that our grand children's children have a fair chance. We should never give up on what is right no matter how hard the battle may be. If you never run for office or have a place on a political forum you can be an advocate in your home by teaching your children about their history, this will be the beginning of change for our country that would be an example of Dr. King Dream. "Knowledge is Power."

Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Hate multiplies
hate, violence multiplies violence, and toughness multiplies toughness in a descending spiral of destruction....The chain reaction
of evil--hate begetting hate, wars producing more wars--must be broken, or we shall be plunged into the dark abyss of
annihilation.
Martin Luther King, Jr., Strength to Love, 1963.

GOOD VS GREAT

Their as have been a lot of talk about Oprah's new television network called OWN. She did a interview with Barbara Walters that was really compelling not because she is my role model but because this women shows unimaginable strength. Their are only a few people on this earth who driven and self- confident as Oprah. In order to separate yourself for the average day to day person you have to be comfortable in your own skin. Know your purpose behind your goals. Last but not least be focus don't let people opinions get in the way of your goals. Fear is another deadly poison that can cripple you from your goals many people never fulfill their full potential, just because the fear of failure. Failure is apart of life that everyone will experience at least once. I would rather deal with my failures then to never have tried at all. Being great requires a lot of sacrifice think about it,  if we didn't have the greats like Martin Luther King Jr and Maya Angelou where would we be. They didn't allow fear to control their goals and because of this they have changed our lives and history forever.They will always will be remembered for leaving such a legacy. Are you doing what it takes to leave your own legacy? Separate yourself today from the average person by producing greatness in all you do. Don't allow people are situations to control your outcome. Take charge of your life today and produce GREATNESS.

For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline

SLOWLY SURELY IN 2011 (HAPPY NEW YEARS)

HELLO, HELLO , HELLO BEAUTIES

I'm so energetic and excited about another year, another opportunity, another chance. We are all blessed to see 2011 because many people did not make it. The main reason why I am so excited about this year is because I have finally made a decision to be FREE. You probably wondering what I mean right?? I was not in jail or anything like that, but was in bondage with the people that surrounds me. Sometimes people can hold you hostage and you do not even realize it's happening. It's something like a secret trap. They can hold you down and make you feel that where you are in life is it. There is no chance for a revival. I call them joy snacthers, cripplers, dream killers, blood suckers, and freebies. They must be remove in order for you to accomplish ANYTHING, of course they want you to be just like them. You know the old saying misery loves company! I know it will be hard for you to remove yourself from something so comfortable. But the only way to achieve and strive for any goals is to become uncomfortable. Comfort is not a option. Free yourself today and move toward what you really want in life and surround yourself with only positive people, that have there own goals in life. They might come right away, but once your mind frame change your company will change. That is the way you will SLOWLY SURELY come into your destiny. I DID